Hi there, bad money management is one thing both dh and I could not cope with so thankfully we are both good with it. We have great budget which includes spending money for each of us so that neither of feels like we can't buy thing or that our hard earned money goes on nothing but bills! This let's s spend guilt free as we know everything else is being taken care of and we still feel some freedom. This probably works for us due to our attitude on money and spending yet others still can't control themselves? Maybe it could work for you guys, if he knows what he can spend then he might manage it better?